This week we’re starting the Setting Intentions series Aeslin told you about earlier. I hope you enjoy it. Several times lately, I’ve had people mention they’re having trouble with spells or manifestation, or that nothing seems to be happening, and they’re not sure what they’re doing wrong.
We all know that to cast any spell or manifest any change effectively, we must first set our intention, but what exactly does that mean? While dictionary.com defines intention as, “
Others, however, think they know what they want and set their intentions, but as soon as they set the intentions, they start putting all kinds of limitations on how they want the universe to deliver their desires. For example, if your intention is to be wealthy, but then you say “I don’t want to be consumed by money,” or “I want to lose weight,” but “I don’t want to exercise.” Often we do this either because we don’t believe we deserve to get what we want, or we don’t believe that it’s possible to get what we want, so we state our intentions in such a way that we set ourselves up for failure by not trusting the universe to work it out.
The question then is how to fix the problem. The easy answer is that intentions need to be sincere. However, I think we are sincere when we set intentions. If you’re like me, when I first began setting intentions, you’ll have to work through some of these things, and you’ll sometimes need to remind yourself that you are “worthy,” although it becomes much easier with practice.
Meditation can make the difference in your ability to set intentions and see them through. Carve out some time to meditate to help focus your thoughts on the positive and on being open to the gifts of the universe.
What do you want to manifest?
So, how do we get rid of those limiting thought and practices?
Pay attention to how many times during the day you limit yourself. How many times a day do you feel like you’re not good enough or that you don’t believe you can do something? To set intentions that work, you must turn those thoughts around. I’ve listed some here.
- Count your blessings. Be grateful for all you have. When things are bad, it’s very hard to count your blessings, but if you make yourself look for one thing you are grateful for, you’re sure to find many more, no matter how small they may be. Work on finding more.
- Be open to all possibilities and willing to accept them. Open your heart to what the universe brings you. Are you truly willing and open to transform your life when your desires manifest
- Take action toward your goal. Once you set your intention, act on it as though what you want is happening and act on it. Show your commitment to your intention through your actions.
Remember, meaningful intentions do not have as their intention to try to control others. Nor do they wish for some miraculous change. You need to be willing to start where you are and step up to the opportunity to create what you want! A meaningful intention is sincere and promotes well-being.